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Victory in Christ Ensemble is quite interested in feedback from our members. As a ministry of sexual healing, VICE hopes to facilitate your “out of the box” discussions and debates within your family, church, locker room, boarding school, college fraternity, juvenile facility, or prison, etc. Unlike many religious zealots, VICE dares not to stone anyone for his or her past sexual mistakes. Instead, like Christ, we simply admonish you to go and sin no more. We believe this 90-day course can positively change how we Americans deal with human sexuality. Here in the relatively anonymity of cyberspace, perhaps, some of you will share how this textbook or website has affected your life. Certainly, such a testimony can bless others to “bend the spoon” and to take up their bed and walk. To protect your privacy, we ask that you use a pseudonym and follow the textbook’s instructions regarding our sexual survey. At its discretion, VICE may reassign Biblical names like Matthew, Mark, Luke or John to male testimonials. Similarly, we may use Eve, Esther, Elizabeth, or Mary for testimonies from female members. VICE also may publish a few prototypes of our own, thus, further obscuring your identity. Please be sure to examine our FREE textbook, "Delilah Has Digital Clippers", which focuses upon the ever important father daughter dyad. Ladies, fasten your seat belts, and GOD bless you too. WE can't fix it IF we can't face it, inconsequential to whatever "it" is.
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I am in my 60’s and just read your book. Wow! I went to a Catholic school where I was taught that masturbation would cause hair to grow in the palm of my hand. I kid you not! Your book is long overdue and I hope it will bless teenagers everywhere!
John in PA
I am a single mom and a pastor; so I don’t agree with your chapter on “Gender is a Moral Issue”. But my reason for writing is that I have a gay son who came out when he was thirteen. After reading your book, he shared some things with me from childhood I never knew. Now at 19, he is even questioning his homosexual identity and I ask that you pray for God to save him. I plan to use your book in my church because it cuts right through the shame and addresses “guy stuff” women just can’t understand.
Esther in FL
I wanted to go to college to become a teacher or even a principal. But, I got pregnant and had my baby before I graduated. At the time, I thought my baby’s daddy might go to the NBA and take care of me and my baby. People at my church judge and look down on me rather than trying to help. But I gain strength from reading my Bible and from what you said about guys and God. Even with my baby, I can have victory in Christ. Maybe next year, I can go to college and teach some girls not to make the same mistake I did and even find a nice boyfriend like Junior.
Gloria in GA
I live in New Orleans but my sister over in Jackson told me to read your book. I wasn’t interested until she said it could be a business opportunity. So, I did and she helped me pay for my first order. Now, I’m running my own business, working full-time, taking care of my kids, and giving back to my community. As a convicted felon, I just want to say thanks A.J. for your Not Guilty Program and I definitely encourage folks to look at a simple business model that works. Instead of giving a brother a fish like some charities, VICE teaches him how to fish – true dat! I paid my sister back and I’m waiting for your next book to come out.
Mark in LA
I am in my late 20’s and just read parts of your book about Junior. I think this Army Dad stepped way over the line and should go to jail. As a coach, I believe you created a fictional father and son since none of my homeboys ever would be that honest about what they did back in the day. Yet, you pushed the right buttons to show how men and boys need to keep it real when talking about sexual molestation. This stuff in your book really happens so Junior, not his Dad, is the real hero.
Fred in SC
You are weird...but in a good way! I hope you don't mind me saying that but I never had a dad, uncle, or football coach as open and honest as you about sex. Wow! I'm in my early thirties and I read your book almost six months ago. The funny thing about it is that I wasn't going to write you at all. But I keep reading parts of your book over and over again and it's getting to me. It makes me think a lot about my childhood experiences and how I may need to get professional help connecting the dots. I mean, I think of myself as a good dad. But I know I never could be as open as Junior's dad in the book. I'm married and I have two daughters and three sons, not all by the same mother. Yet, two of my boys are at that age when boys think about sex a lot. The things you said in your book made me wonder if I should talk to my two oldest boys more openly about masturbation and sex. My dad never married my mom and he lived in a different state when I was growing up. We talked on the phone every once in a while, but he never saw me play football or spent time with us during Christmas, birthdays, Thanksgiving or other holidays. What made me write you is that story about the basketball team. I won't say where I live but we did the same thing when our football team went out of town. So, Mr. Robinson, I could not believe how almost everything you said about the jock's creed was the exact same thing our coaches told our football team in the locker room. Looking back, I see how I was seduced in 9th grade by one of my teachers. It never even came across my mind until I read your book. I wouldn't call it child molestation since I was old enough to know what was going on. Like I said, me and my teammates already were messing around anyway. But I liked the attention and the nice things this man did for me. We had sex only a few times and I hated myself after we did it. But I never told and I still kept meeting him and messing around for almost two years. I didn't have a dad so maybe I was looking for a father figure? Now that my oldest son is playing high school sports, I wonder if he and his basketball or track teammates are messing around. He doesn't even live with me but my guess is, Hell yeah! So, your book makes me wonder if I should try to spend more time with him. My wife has met him but she doesn't like the idea of making him a part of "our" family. Like I said, I was not even going to write but your book made me realize I might need therapy or professional help. I'm not at all a religious man like you. But I still hope you will pray for me and my family. Who knows, I might even write you again with an update. Even if I don't, still I think more men should really talk to their sons and to one another about what you call guy stuff. Your book can help many of us dads to become better fathers. Thanks!
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JUNIOR'S PENIS PARABLE # XI
Although everything Junior's father shared with him about male sexuality was true, it can not be overstated how rare it is for either military dads or civilian fathers to be this thorough and this candid with their pubescent sons about male sexuality! Even today, just like Junior’s grandfather, most Dads are cowardly insecure and reticent regarding pubescent bisexuality. In this age of a very pugilistic and very powerful Feminist Movement and Gay Movement in the United States, gentlemen, the ball is in your court regarding the moral quality of the sex education you provide and inculcate among your own sons, nephews, cousins, student athletes, etc. Without question, the Bible, the Torah, and the Qur'an collectively say one thing while political correctness a/k/a “correct mess”, says something totally different. Morally speaking, fathers, you are this generation's Moses who must lead teenagers and young boys safely through their sexual “Red Sea”. While you may controvert whether or not Junior was molested, without question, VICE’s website and workbook raise the bar for everyone who wants our progeny to reach adulthood unscathed by sexual molestation or sexual mistakes.
We can’t fix it IF we can’t face it. Thus, we must have these conversations with boys, teenagers, and young men in our communities. Perhaps, many of VICE’s members hastily concluded that this Army dad molested Junior. Yet, your perusal of the preceding penis parables clearly demonstrates how candid conversations between Junior and his Dad circumscribed his concupiscence and his character throughout puberty. Compare this to your own father's conversations about sex when you were in middle school. Was your Dad as candid as Junior’s? Was he as thorough in discussing sex as Junior’s father? In retrospect, what sexual mistakes in your own life can be attributed to your father’s silence? Explain. Were you as candid in your conversations with your sons about male sexuality? I rest my case. Vacating for a minute your opinion of whether he molested Junior, do you feel that this Army officer should have been this transparent and honest with his son? It is worth mentioning that during his football, track, and wrestling days in high school, Junior's father also learned the ubiquitous Jock's Creed, regarding what jocks do in the privacy of their locker rooms and hotel rooms. Likewise, in college his fraternity compelled him to swear on his life and that of his yet unborn children that he never would disclose their homoerotic or homosexual virility rituals to anyone – what happens here stays here! In addition, as an officer in the military, Junior’s father understands precisely what “Don’t Ask/Don’t Tell” means. Rather than telling the truth, secrecy about m4m sex is a sine qua non not only within the military, but also in professional sports, Boy Scouts, the movie industry, the music industry, fraternities, Masonic organizations, corporations, churches, and other constructs relying upon a certain “str8” public image. Ergo, how did such a well-disciplined military officer find the courage or the stupidity to think outside the box in his father son dyad? What do you think prompted this Dad to talk as candidly as he did with Junior about male sexuality? Did his father’s beating after catching him fooling around with a male cousin play a major role? Albeit initially never stated, is it possible that his pubescent bisexual experiences in high school or college played a major role in the decision to be forthright as a Dad? Did this Army father’s close relationship with Uncle Jake instead of his own Dad precipitate the kind of candor he exemplified as a parent? Yet, did this Army officer’s close relationship with Uncle Jake precipitate any resentment in their father son dyad? IF so, then did Junior’s Dad resent his father more for having molested Uncle Jake or for his hypocritical beating and belittling lecture about sexual perversion? Explain. By extrapolation, would your sons resent or respect you more for keeping it real about your sexual history? How would it change how you feel about your father IF ever he told you that he messed around with a few of his buddies when he was growing up? Would your own father’s candor make you respect him more and trust him enough to remove your fig leaf regarding your homoerotic or homosexual experiences? Could the two of you go fishing, camping or have a drink and even laugh about it? Would you consider your dad to be "less of a man" or “more of a man” based upon what he shared with you? How would you feel IF he told you that his brother, cousin, coach, or a preacher, etc., molested him when he was twelve or even younger? By now, hopefully, you get the point. Again, IF the truth were told regarding male sexuality, virtually all of us horny males are "convertibles" capable of letting the top down and back up! IF 79% - 97% of all males… you fill in the blanks.
Now, let’s flip the script and ask whether it would it change how you feel about your mother IF ever she told you that she had over a dozen male partners before she married your father? Would you think less of your Mom’s virtue, IF ever she stated that she had two abortions before she married your dad? Would you consider your single Mom to be “less of a woman” IF she preferred a lesbian lover over being with her baby’s daddy, your father? How would you feel about your grandmother IF you found out that she had an affair with a preacher or a deacon during your lifetime? How would you feel about your grandmother IF you found out that she had a baby by a man other than your grandfather without his ever knowing that to have been the case? In the Bible, what did Jesus say to the self-righteous men who caught a woman “backin’ dat thang up”? Do you have any rocks in your hand? Brothers, IF we are willing to stone our own mothers, grandmothers, and grandfathers – as well as chaplains, colonels, Congressmen, and Commander in Chiefs – who disclose their sexual mistakes, then certainly we are predisposed to stoning Junior’s fictional Army Dad. Realistically, did he molest his son or did he empower Junior and prepare him for real situations that many teenagers will face? Explain. Realizing that none of us is omniscient, it is incumbent upon fathers to proffer their sons [and daughters] holistic discussions about sexuality in elementary school and in middle school. Your incremental lessons in sex education don’t need to be perfect! Yet, many children are being exposed to visually explicit images of sodomy and coitus in elementary school! VICE hastily admits that none of us has all the answers to this moral conundrum about sexuality. Yet, how can our children and teenagers reach adulthood unscathed by sexual mistakes or sexual molestation without these discussions? The Holy Bible declares that, “Ye shall know the truth and the truth shall make you free!” Capish?
“Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived, neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God. And such were some of you; but ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but ye are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God.” [I Corinthians 6:9 – 11]
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